I just spent 4+ hours negotiating a treaty with the STBX.
(I will get it written up in legalese,
we will sign it - notarized
and attach it to the divorce.)
I have not talked with him since he left
We have emailed - mostly to set up this meeting -
that and the well problem -
dirty water coming out of the faucet -
but as for face to face talking (or even phone) -
this was our first.
We were supposed to have a budget worked out
and we did -
we were quite close in what we think it takes to run
Casa de Refugio.
I cried a great deal
and he did some, too.
In the midst of the 4 hours,
I asked some questions
about the high school sweetheart girlfriend
and their relationship.
All is not well.
She has some trust issues.
But here is my reason for posting -
my Quote of the Day -
"Well, I guess I didn't know her
as well as I thought I did......"
Thank you for reading.
(By the way,
did you see the Dude on Saturday Night Live?
Jeff Bridges says he's not the Dude,
but I am so not convinced!)